Friday, 8 August 2008

baby talk or "le parler bébé"


It is fascinating to hear the way that Simon's language is developing. He picks up words all the time, some in French and some in English. We're pretty sure that he often chooses between the languages according to which word is easier to pronounce. So we have "car" rather than "voiture", but "pain" rather than "bread". But he understands them in both, so his papa can ask him, "Où est le voiture?" and he'll point, saying, "Car!" and I can say, "Simon, would you like some bread?" and he'll say, "Pain!"


I'm also amazed by how much he understands. Sometimes far more than I expect him to. I have a tendancy to think that he pays attention to intonation and guesses the meaning, rather than going by the meaning of all the words. But his reactions can floor me. This morning he had eaten most of his raisins, and was pushing the others around his tray. So I said, "Simon, if you don't want your raisins then Mummy can eat them for you!" and he immediately started picking raisins up and feeding them to me! Ok, he might not have understood more than "... raisins ... Mummy ... eat" but still!


He likes communication in general, and is going through quite a kissy phase. (Well, he is French, so he needs to learn the correct way to greet people!) He will make kissing noises, and hold his cheek out to be kissed ... which is certainly one way to charm people when you are a cute 19-month old! His parents are not so keen on him doing this with complete strangers at the supermarket!
Simon trying out a local slide near his grandparents' in France:





Tuesday, 5 August 2008

10 things I love about you...

France:
  • Family
  • Friends
  • The bread
  • The cheese
  • Croissants, escargots (pains aux raisins lorrains), crêpes...
  • Tisane réglisse-menthe (mint and licorice infusion)
  • The countryside (especially the Pyrenées)
  • When it comes to shopping: Kiabi, Yves Rocher (and the fab free gifts), LaRedoute, 3 Suisses...
  • French: the language of lurve ;o)
  • The way people are so French!
England:
  • Family
  • Friends
  • The bread
  • The cheese
  • Marmite, crumpets, Bakewell tart, Bath buns...
  • A nice cuppa
  • The countryside (especially the Lake District)
  • Next Baby, Mothercare, JojoMamanBébé (English, honestly!), Argos...
  • English: my mother tongue (thanks, Mum!)
  • The way people are so English!

I could write a similar list for Benin, but I've never lived there for long, so I don't think I can compare it in the same way! But I believe God has prepared our place there just as He has always done for me whenever I've moved somewhere new.

Thursday, 31 July 2008

knifed...

... or should that be knived? Anyway, someone slashed one of our tyres! The car was sitting innocently in the carpark behind my parents-in-law's house ... and I don't even think it was a racist attack as the car next to it had been attacked too.
Oh well, Marc was able to put his Basic Car Maintenance training into practice and change the wheel, and the car was in fact already booked in at the garage the next morning. (We had to get our dipstick changed because the bottom of it had dropped off into the oil tank!)
But it does annoy me when we have to pay for someone else's random violence.

Tuesday, 29 July 2008

no work and all play means we're on holiday!

After a year of deadlines and busy-ness, it feels odd to be able to relax ... but we're getting used to it! Simon is enjoying meeting the local "wildlife" - he's a real animal-lover! - and trying out the local playgrounds.











Friday, 25 July 2008

en France

I'm glad to say that we have made it to France safely, despite the slight hassles of trying to pack when we hadn't unpacked properly from our move yet! Also the move wiped me out, so I couldn't even find much motivation for unpacking.
On the positive side, I am definitely feeling less and less sick and finally feel like I'm actually getting some rest and finding a bit more energy. I know that theoretically I'm in the second trimester of this pregnancy, but I'm looking forward to actually feeling that glowing, all's-right-with-the-world feeling again.
It is good to be here, lovely to have sunshine, great to see family! Simon is loving the box of toys his French grandparents have, especially all the cars, buses and tractors!
No recent photos, as we ran the batteries down and didn't get round to recharging them until just before we left!

Wednesday, 16 July 2008

where all is revealed ...

... as Hilary admits that the reason she has been feeling sick and not blogging so much is because of this tiny being inside her:



We are of course very happy ... though I will be able to rejoice more when I stop feeling so sick. I've been back on medication which does help, but it's been eight or nine weeks now, and it really is miserable! Anyway, I'm not here to complain but to share good news!


Assuming all goes well with the pregnancy, and our support-raising, we will still leave for Benin in November, and I will give birth out there. Which is a slightly daunting thought, but not as much as it would have been for a first child.

Monday, 7 July 2008

on the move

We are Packing - definitely with a capital "P"! With a little letter it's the kind of packing we do to go away for a weekend/fortnight/month, but now we're actually moving out of our flat. So it's a big deal, but I just keep reminding myself that it's a much smaller job than when we moved out of our French flat a year ago. Then we had several years of accumulated junk to sort through, whereas now - because we did a good job last year - we have a LOT less stuff! And even what we brought over then, we've been gradually whittling down over the year.
Still, I suspect that come Friday it will still look quite a lot all boxed up!